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Author Topic: Is WoN a good place for me?  (Read 548 times)

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Offline Charlotte Z. Cavatica

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Is WoN a good place for me?
« on: January 15, 2009, 11:45:34 AM »


YES!

Who belongs on WoN?

You do! At least we hope you make WoN your home away from home!

 =welcome=


The WoN community is a learning place for anyone whose life has been impacted by someone with a narcissistic personality. Our membership is comprised of people who were raised by narcissistic parents, people who partnered with narcissists, those who work with or for narcissists, people choosing to stay in narcissistic relationships, and for people dealing with any other narcissistic relationship causing distress and confusion in their lives. 

We do not have a medical or psychological staff qualified to assist people with a narcissistic personality disorder. There are better venues for people with NPD. If you have a narcissistic personality disorder, we ask that you respect forum member's healing process and refrain from posting messages on the WoN forum.

Our intent and purpose on WoN is to support the people who have been or are impacted by the narcissist. WoN is the right community for you if your personal values align with the following statements:

     You want to learn about pathological narcissism

     You have read our Mission Statement and willingly respect WoN guidelines

     Your life has become unmanageable and you want to end the chaos

     You want to get better, feel better, and be better 

     You are willing to ask for help

     You are willing to give help

     You are willing to learn about and practice self-regulation 
 
     You are interested in creating a support network for yourself

     You value reciprocally nurturing relationships and interdependence   

     You are willing to treat others (and yourself) with respect and dignity

     You want to create healthier boundaries for yourself

     You are tolerant and respectful of other people's differences and choices

     You are willing to exercise Good Faith towards fellow board members:

                    No intention of malice

                    People are trying their best to do their best

                    People are trying their best to do their best for the greater good of the community

                    Friendliness, honesty, caring
(See Reference)
                 

     *You want to Give Back because you appreciate being Given To

     *You recognize your moral responsibility to protect other people’s freedoms and privileges as well as your own

Group collaboration is key to achieving our collective and individual goal: restoring peace and sanity in our lives. Understanding the narcissistic pathology allows us to separate ourselves from unhealthy enmeshment by creating healthier boundaries. We also practice emotional self-regulation. As a group, we support one another’s efforts to learn, unlearn and relearn healthier ways of living. We also encourage one another to stop trying to change the narcissist or control his or her behavior; we help each other keep the focus on ourselves by remembering that the only power we have to change anyone is with ourselves.

Joining a supportive community facilitates our recovery process. We hope WoN is the perfect fit and that you'll feel comfortable helping us build a safe place for people to learn about narcissistic relationships. We know how hard it is to feel good in our skin again, to trust other people again, to resist the urge to isolate ourselves for fear of being rejected, ridiculed or shamed. We understand because each of us has felt similar emotions. But you CAN feel better. You CAN regain control over your life. You CAN become the person you want to be...one step at a time.

Or on WoN, we might say: One Message At A Time



Love,

Charlotte



Reference: http://www.usemod.com/cgi-bin/mb.pl?AssumeGoodFaith



« Last Edit: February 13, 2009, 02:17:04 PM by Charlotte A. Cavatica »
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