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Author Topic: How long does the Healing Process take?  (Read 595 times)

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Offline Charlotte Z. Cavatica

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How long does the Healing Process take?
« on: January 15, 2009, 01:25:51 PM »
How long does the healing process take?


The degree of work we must do to restore our lives post-narcissist, depends on several factors:


1-the number of years we were in relationship with the narcissist

2-the degree of trust extended to the narcissist

3-the environment in our family-of-origin

4-financial dependence on the narcissist

5-whether or not we share children with the narcissist and how many

6-our emotional and/or geographical isolation

7-our inherent emotional resilience

8-our physical health and/or disabilities

9-our mental health and/or disorders

10-our ability to secure therapeutic support

11-our belief system and/or unquestioned assumptions

12-the degree of abuse we may have suffered from the narcissist

13-our own self-destructive behaviors/addictions


It is our experience and currently the advice of numerous psychologists, that a support community facilitates healing and fosters personal growth. We do not intend to replace healthcare professionals but to serve as an adjunct for individuals in recovery from the narcissistic-relatioNship.



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Charlotte

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