Get Your Angries Out by Lynne Namka
"Talk, Trust & Feel Therapeutics provides innovative toys and books to help parents, teachers and therapists teach children to express uncomfortable feelings, take responsibility for their own behavior and learn positive social skills. Our commitment is to develop products to help children feel good about identifying and breaking into their acts of power and replacing them with acts of love. Our unique mission is to help children and adults learn how to deal with their anger and express it in safe, constructive ways. Our philosophy is that changing our world is possible when adults approach children's misbehavior with love and compassion and teach them better ways to act." ~
http://www.angriesout.com/namka.htm The Art of Mirroring by Sophia J. Wien-Kim
"No matter how much you struggle or how confused you might be, there is an approach with which you never fail. It is using a communication technique called "mirroring", which originates from the Imago Relationship Theory developed by Harville Hendrix, PhD..."Mirroring is literally and accurately reflecting back what the other is telling you. The purpose of mirroring is to let the your child know you are willing to put aside your thoughts and feelings for a moment to really listen and understand her point of view.
"...Through mirroring you let the child know she is acceptable, adequate, valued, worthy and treasured. Your child will, over time, start thinking about herself in those terms. She will grow strong, resilient and be able to manage her life, her emotions and her tasks - and have healthy relationships with others as well." " ~
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/therapists/Articles/ArtofMirroring.htmGiving Your Child Voice by Richard Grossman
"Many of the essays on this web site are devoted to the adult consequences of childhood "voicelessness." These include narcissism, depression, and chronic relationship problems." ~
http://www.voicelessness.com/parenting.html The Natural Child Project, Resources for Caring Parents
"Our vision is a world in which all children are treated with dignity, respect, understanding, and compassion. In such a world, every child can grow into adulthood with a generous capacity for love and trust. Our society has no more urgent task." ~
The Natural Child Project, Resources for Caring Parents Absent Fathers by Marilyn Heins, ParentKidsRight
"Don't dwell on the absence of a father. Don't think, "My poor boy, he doesn't have a father. He is doomed to a life of unhappiness." The reality is that this boy has no contact with his father. OK, thousands of kids survive this and so will he...Think of what the boy HAS: a loving, concerned, caring mother for starters." ~
http://parentkidsright.com/pt-absentfathers.htmlTransforming The Difficult Child by Howard Glasser
"The Nurtured Heart Approach is an amazing set of strategies developed specifically for children with ADHD and other challenging behaviors to facilitate parenting and classroom success. These methods have helped thousands of families to transform their child from using their intensity in primarily negative ways to using their intensity in beautifully creative and constructive ways. This approach has also helped teachers and other school personnel to have a dramatically positive effect on all children." ~
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0967050707/103-5221859-9445464?v=glance&n=283155What I Wish My Parents Had Done, excerpted from BPD411
"Learn all YOU can about mental illness. In order to help your children understand and cope, YOU need to understand and learn how to cope yourself. Take care of yourself. If you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t help your children. Be sure to get the breaks and support you need...Reaffirm reality. Don’t pretend everything is normal when it isn’t. Your child needs to know that what is going on when their ill parent is not normal."
http://www.bpd411.org/parentalwish.html