I cannot believe the amount of damage these people do. I had two Ns working on me at once, my kids' step mother, and my ex boyfriend. I came extremely close to dying, I've basically lost more than ten years of my life, and I know you all (except Ns lurking or posing here) can relate.
I had no idea who I was dealing with, I was the "identified patient." BUT NOT ANYMORE.
J, my kids step Mom, did, and will still do, anything she can to destroy me. Period. All-the-while feigning love and compassion for my supposed mental illness, which came about after she started all out, but veiled, war on me for my own children. NOT ANYMORE.
I got rid of my N ex five years ago and am feeling an interest in trying to date again.
I finally getting my life and sanity back.