This is a good book if you are not sure whether your lover is a Narcissist or not. There are plenty of stories describing real life relationships with an "N." Great for validation and understanding how Ns weave their web, and why.
Written in a very accessible style, not like a psychology textbook.
I didn't find much to help me cope, recover, move on though. Worth reading anyway, but I'll need to keep looking for information on my own recovery.