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Offline CZBZ

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Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« on: May 27, 2010, 09:37:09 AM »


I am happy to start this thread with common acronyms used on most Narcissism Forums, though I hope y'all will add any acronyms I may have missed. If you'd like to jot down other lingo that's common to our experience, please do so! Once we collect everyone's input, I'll create a permanent page for our forum.

thanks!

CZ



Acronyms and Lingo



WoN = Web of Narcissism  =msn wink=

N = narcissist

P = psychopath

NP = narcissistic psychopath

MN = malignant narcissist

STBX = soon to be X

STBXNH = soon to be x-narcissistic husband

STBXNW = soon to be x-narcissistic wife

NM = narcissistic mother

NH = narcissistic husband

NW = narcissistic wife

NC = no contact

D&D = devalue and discard

NS = narcissistic supply





DD = darling daughter

DS = darling nson

DH = darling husband

DW = darling wife

LOL = laughing out loud

ROFL = rolling on the floor laughing

ROFLMBO = rolling on the floor laughing my butt off


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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #1 on: May 27, 2010, 11:42:14 AM »
OW - other woman

OM - chant used in meditation

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #2 on: May 27, 2010, 11:57:09 AM »
How on EARTH did I forget about OW??????



 =msn tongue=

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #3 on: May 27, 2010, 12:04:00 PM »
FOO - Family of Origin

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #4 on: May 27, 2010, 01:18:23 PM »
OM = Other Man

WS = Wayward Spouse

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #5 on: May 27, 2010, 02:33:06 PM »
We'd ALL like to forget OW.    =so sad=
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #6 on: May 27, 2010, 03:50:42 PM »
BF - Boyfriend

GF - Girlfriend

BFF - Best friend forever

PAS - parent alienation syndrome

D1, D2, etc - oldest daughter, second-born daughter

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #7 on: May 27, 2010, 04:19:46 PM »
 =rofl2= funny graphic of the butt falling off -- I could use a bit more of that myself, hey who am I kidding, I could use a lot of it in more ways then one.

I don't know if you want to officially add these or not,
Kingdom of Narcissism = KON
Land of Love = LOL

Family of Creation & Choice = FoC

Nf= narcissistic friend
NBF = narcissistic boyfriend
NGF = narcissistic girlfriend
Nn = narcissistic neighbor
Nboss = narcissistic boss
NSib = narcissistic sibling
NSis or Ns = narcissistic sister
NBro or Nb = narcissistic brother
NFiL =narcissistic Father in Law
NMiL = narcissistic Mother in Law

FiL = Father in Law
MiL = Mother in Law
SiL = Sister in law
BiL = Brother in Law

« Last Edit: May 27, 2010, 06:58:00 PM by LettingGo »

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #8 on: May 27, 2010, 06:41:13 PM »
NvampM  Narcissist vampire mother?

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #9 on: May 30, 2010, 08:35:02 PM »
N-glish for the gaslighting gibberish that they speak (not sure who coined this one)
N-fection for the misery they inflict on everyone around them (Legs is the first one I saw posting this)
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2010, 09:08:10 PM »
Yah, that N-fection can be really bad! And once you've had it, you are more likely to get another one because you have (lack of boundaries)
and all kinds of other stuff that draw them to you like, uh..well I was gona say flies on chit, but I'll use "a magnet" instead. It's N-sane how that works!!!


Legs, who wants someone to invent an N-oculation and fast!
Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those that matter don't mind,
and those that mind don't matter.

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2010, 12:19:29 PM »
Legs, you make me giggle.  Until there is a vaccine against Narc attacks, this board is the best thing to a shot that you can find!!!
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2010, 12:27:39 PM »
Oh, y'all made me remember one of my own concoctions a few years ago: N/S-oulmate

(and it wasn't ME)  =msn cry=


These are all GREAT!!


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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #13 on: May 31, 2010, 01:17:28 PM »
I love the N-oculation Legs -- I am so glad you found WoN!  =welcome=  =welcome=  =welcome=

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #14 on: May 31, 2010, 02:18:01 PM »
I guess in the sickest kind of way, making fun of them is a form of N-tertainment.


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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #15 on: May 31, 2010, 03:58:34 PM »
  =rofl2=  N-tertainment!    =dancing banana= that is great! You got talent Lady! Again, so very glad you are here!

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #16 on: May 31, 2010, 04:43:07 PM »
Word Salad

D&D (I always forget what that one means)

It would be great to have a permanent N dictionary on this board somewhere.

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #17 on: May 31, 2010, 04:52:57 PM »
D&D = Dissed & Dismissed and/or Devalued & Discarded

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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #18 on: May 31, 2010, 05:16:24 PM »
Oh, well then.....I am always afraid to use the N word. I don't want to be N-cautious or an N-abler. There are some who are not N-chanted with the whole N-chilada. I do not want to N-croach on anyone's N-clave and do want to be seen as the N-emy or worse, an N-ema.

I will N-gineer to N-sult the N-tire N-vironment and hope to N-rich you with my N-thusiaism.

Legs, who needs an N-cyclopedia!!!!
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #19 on: May 31, 2010, 05:56:50 PM »
CZBZ, I strongly recommend that this thread be archived eventually. It is way too much fun to lose.

N/S-oulmate is one we have to keep up. This seems to be one of the narcissist's favorite hooks from their nasty bag of tricks. I know I thought exN was my soulmate, but he turned out to be my soulhate.

N-ema  =rofl2= you are a breath of (irreverently) fresh air Legs! I've always heard that laughter is the best medicine, but now it's proven! If you laugh your @ss off, N/S-oulmate can't give you an N-ema
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #20 on: May 31, 2010, 06:11:11 PM »
<snort> You made my day! To be called irreverent is the topper-most of the popper-most! ( should have said pooper-most in reference to the N-ema)

On my tombstone, I want it to simply and elegantly:

She Was a Hoot





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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #21 on: May 31, 2010, 07:14:37 PM »
Yes, we need an N-tire N-cyclopedia of Leg's N-words. N-chantment -- perfect! I was thinking that very same thing when I started reading your first N-words. Your N-thusiasism is very catching and I don't want an N-oculation from all this great  =LOL= medicine! In fact, dear I say, is there N-ymore?

These are all great N-words to translate the N-glish to Human language in the KON. The N-vironment the Ns create that they delude themselves in thinking it will N-rich us with their N-thusiaism & N-telligence and that we will be forever N-love. When the N-chantment spell is broken they are no longer N-triguing. Their evil is N-tirely too much. Thank God, & Legs for the N-oculation and Thank the Wonderful Women of WoN for the N-booster shot supplement -- I was really N-need of that when I got here! Hopefully we can educate our children so that they can be N-mmuned from the KON.

You definitely are a hoot & N-spiration (in a great way!) Legs! =cheer=
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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #22 on: May 31, 2010, 07:46:49 PM »
I've been weeding the yard most of the day and this thread has made me laugh so hard my stomach hurts...not just my back.

I will most definitely archive this thread and create a WoN N-cyclopedia!

I need to dig into the bowels of my harddrive (speaking of N-enemas) and find a long list I started three years ago. But y'all have come up with some truly original N-words. I am N AWE.


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Re: Acronyms and WoN-Lingo
« Reply #23 on: May 31, 2010, 08:19:50 PM »
Was just N-spired, while trying to encourage my little D to do the right thing (pick up toys), this phrase came to mind,
If you don't listen to your SiS (Sister in Situation) from wise WOWoN (women of WoN) then you will get N-trouble!

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« Reply #24 on: May 31, 2010, 08:34:05 PM »


LOL!!!  =msn tongue= We will have the most creative website on the Internet! Now some folks might think we're a tad strange but if they ever met a N, they'll probably add their own creatioNs to our list!

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