Acronyms and WoN-Lingo

[CZBZ]

I'll stick with 'bottoms up' for my nightly glass of milk.  

Our society is so saturated with sex talk, it's hard to say anything anymore. Maybe our fascination with all-things-titillating will come to a head at some point? O dear. That didn't come out right, either.  

Since we're on the topic---i watched a video lecture of a woman who was trying to teach kids the difference between healthy porn and unhealthy porn. Very interesting. She said she finally figured out what a terrible impact current pornography had on our kids when the twenty-something man she was having sex with (she's in her forties and considers herself a 'cougar'), thought it would be enjoyable for her if he 'came' on her face.

This lecture was on a very respectable website (Ted.com) which once again: Normalizes deviancy.

We bring stuff like this out in the open where it usually loses it's power and yet, we normalize the behavior in a perverse way. Not sure how to deal with it, really though my concern has been for people in abusive relaitonship who are 'groomed' to betray themselves and please the narcissist.

I will say that any man who wanted to ejaculate on my face would NOT get a nice discussion about 'why' that was not okay with me. No more of that nice-nice 'Let's talk about it so I can teach you what pleases me' bulloney. I wouldn't even give him a second thought---just OUT the DOOR buddy and take your misogyny with you.

You are N-decent and I only 'do' decent.


LOL,

CZ

[LettingGo]

Since we're on the topic---i watched a video lecture of a woman who was trying to teach kids the difference between healthy porn and unhealthy porn.~CZ

  what was this woman thinking? What was the parents thinking? How old were these kids?
Sexualize your children, expose them to "healthy" porn, rob them of their innocents, so that they become easier prey.

I guess I can go on vacation since mankind is busy doing my job ~ devil

There is nothing wrong w/ "healthy porn" or what I refer to as erotica for adult entertainment -- what is wrong is that our society exposes children to things that are made for adults eyes only. It is called adult entertainment for a reason -- it is made only for adults. I guess it is time for us as a society to bring back the dunce hat! And then these same dunce adults say, "I don't know why our D is giving BJ's to every other boy in school? I don't know why her self-esteem and self-worth is based on what her body can do for others." Hello Connect the dots people! You taught her that her value lies in how her body can please others. A person should discover Self before s/he discovers Sex. Wake up World!

"I did not have sex with that woman" ~ Former US President Bill Clinton

[~Solo]

Hahahaha!!!  This was too way much fun to be had on the N-ternet!!!   

I loved this!!!!  Thanks for the belly laugh all!  Legs, you are a 'hoot'!!

~Solo

[zero]

What's NSJ?

[TXGal]

What is KoN ??  It is often mentioned but no one says what it is.....

[betterdays]

Don't know what NSJ is, but KoN is Kingdom of Narcissism, another way of saying That Madness We Must Escape.

[CZBZ]

I just barely noticed Zero had posted a question on this thread, asking for a definition of NSJ.

I have no clue.

NS usually refers to Narcissistic Supply, though. So NSJ might mean Narcissistic Supply Juice. ha! J'est kiddin'. I really don't know.


Hugs,
CZ

[Mette]

GC = Golden child

The child that is favored in special ways and often most enmeshed in the narc parent. This can be both only children and siblings...

Thanks for the compilation - I love it 

Mette

[smp]

Too true - "We are only as sick as our secrets."

[bellelang83]

Turned out my momster did a Divide and Conquer between the two dogs at home and her favourite became eventually known as a N-og He was always misbehaving and had a jerkell and hyde personality... no matter how much affection you gave him, he would always come to spite you when he saw he had the upper hand. My partner appropriately named him a N-og and I concur.  

                                                            

[too_many]

PoC-N = 'Pillar of Community'-N, (but I like the 'Piece of Crud' reading too)  

[Chime]

I am soooo glad I found this thread
I have been scratching my head about some of them!
I wonder if it should be on the home page.
it's not easy being a newbie!
lol
Chime

[alatariel]

How 'bout:

OTOH- on the other hand
IRL- in real life
XNF- ex (narcissist) friend

[alatariel]

AFAIK- as far as I know
IIRC- if I remember correctly
IMO- in my opinion
JMO- just my opinion
IDK- I don't know