Books that helped me post N

[Jacintae]

Hi

I do realise that books are very personal things. But here are a few that I found helpful post N.

http://www.annelirufus.com/stuck.html


http://search.barnesandnoble.com/No-More-Frogs-No-More-Princes/Joanne-Vickers/e/9780895946256


http://www.jameshollis.net/books/middle.htm (A Jungian approach but in basic plain English and it's about 'Self' acceptance)



and despite all the hype - I found the core message of this good. (Also good for anyone interested in Jung)

http://theshadoweffect.com/custom/book.php


None of these books are specifically related to Nism nor are they directly related to 'relationship loss'.

But at a low ebb and at the beginning of my own journey to rebuild a new life with mySelf at mid-life- I found them all helpful.

Love to all

Jac xx

[Jacintae]

I found this book very interesting and helpfull too.

http://www.undervaluedself.com/thebook.html


Jac xx

[Jacintae]

http://fora.tv/2007/06/04/Bitch_the_Crone_and_the_Harlot


I am not saying this is a 'buy' but I find her talk here very interesting - especially how she came to realise that the man who she loved (and who left her) was not really the cause of her joy - just the catalyst that had helped her find joy in herself.


Love
Jac xx

[Jacintae]

http://www.huntingtonnews.net/columns/100914-kinchen-columnsbookreview.html

I 'accidently' bought this book. I subscribe to a book club and get one free book every month.  A few months ago, I just picked this one almost at random.

I found it gave me a new idea. In the back of my mind, post the N relationship, I tend to think 'When I finally recover from the N relationship, then I will be happy' . But this book made me think a new thought 'Suppose I try to be as happy as I can every day, do positive things, have positive thoughts - then maybe I will recover better from the N relationship'. Sometimes it really seems to work.

Not really a 'buy' maybe - but the idea was a new one for me and I found it helpful.

Love
Jac xx