One consistency with Ns and money is that they all seem to have it.
My xNbf and xNH are both very financially comfortable. I suspect xNH doesn't pay all the taxes he should. He has all these various corporations and rental properties, and I would be willing to bet he's scamming the IRS.
xNbf let it slip once that he inherited money from his parents. Before that he had me convinced that he was just a hard worker who managed his money well. He spends and spends on himself -- new kayaks, new truck. He just paid about $2500 to get a bunch of trees cut down on his property. Also he just bought another acre of land adjacent to the five acres he already owns.
He likes to use his money to show how generous he is, but you see how he used it to humiliate me by telling me I still owe him over $500 (and he wrote that in his D&D "Dear John" letter to me).
So, in a nutshell, I think they deceive and cheat and lie to get money, because they have to have money to be able to control people. Then they use money when they are trying to impress, and also use it when they want to D&D. Money is control and power to them.
Just my two cents' worth. hehehehe
Monique