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Author Topic: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????  (Read 1706 times)

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Offline honeybearII

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #25 on: February 09, 2012, 01:33:14 PM »
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I wonder who will be next? Mother Theresa?

Ummm.....hate to say this, but a number of people who actually worked with Mother Teresa have come out and admitted that she was a raving N who actually treated people pretty poorly in a lot of different ways.  She was a master at PR (most Ns are!!)  whose hype far exceeded her actual dealings with the poor.

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #26 on: February 09, 2012, 01:51:18 PM »
My innocence is now irredeemably lost.

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #27 on: February 09, 2012, 04:53:42 PM »
Doh!

OK....so Mother Theresa added to list.  =msn shocked=

Now....how about Barney the Purple Dinosaur? Can we put our faith in HIM? Please...there must be somebody???????

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #28 on: February 09, 2012, 05:07:19 PM »
ER  the Gruffalo   maybe  =angel static= 

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #29 on: February 09, 2012, 06:19:22 PM »
Speaking of Tolstoy, the author of my all-time favorite novel (Anna Karenina), whose Tolstoyans were the inspiration for Ghandi's non-violent resistance movement--he surely was another narcissist.  He forced his wife to have sex every single day, and yet he was infatuated with one man after another.  She was especially jealous of Turgenev, the author of Fathers and Sons.  She was indispensable to Tolstoy not only as his beard; she was related either to the Czar or someone in his court and had considerable influence there, which is the only thing that kept Leo out of jail.  Oh what fun it must have been to be her.  Multiple kids with the horny guy who wasn't into her, and apparently, his teeth were rotting out the whole time.

Bleak House is still a great novel, though.

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #30 on: February 09, 2012, 06:48:36 PM »
No kidding.  My old boyfriend who turned out to be gay had a cat named Tolstoy.  I wondered why because he was not particularly literary.  The things I learn here!

Feeling hopelessly inane tonight,
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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #31 on: February 10, 2012, 04:29:44 AM »
Well....maybe Dickens and Mother Theresa should have got it together....Tolstoy could pop round for dinner and admire Dickens` sock suspenders a little too freely....while Dickens` wife, Tolstoy`s wife...and all Mother Theresa`s poor minions can come and hang out in Rosemary`s Villa in Malta when she remembers where she put it.  =party=

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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #32 on: February 10, 2012, 02:12:23 PM »

NPR (national public radio) ran this story on Dickens last week. This article includes some very interesting links, too. I thought you might enjoy it, Jenny!

Dickens At 200: A Birthday You Can't 'Bah Humbug'
by LINDA WERTHEIMER

(7  minutes audio interview)

"Tuesday marks the 200th anniversary of the birth of Charles Dickens — the great 19th century English novelist who gave us stories of pathos and comedy, and colorful portraits of the people of London, from the poor in the back streets, to the rich in the parks and avenues.

Lots of Dickens' phrases — like "Bah humbug" and "God bless us, every one!" — have slipped into our minds and our memories. And along with the words, the characters, too — from hungry orphan Oliver Twist to Little Dorrit to cruel Mr. Murdstone.

"After Shakespeare, Dickens is the great creator of characters, multiple characters," says Claire Tomalin, author of the new biography Charles Dickens: A Life. "He did these great walks — he would walk every day for miles and miles, and sometimes I think he was sort of stoking up his imagination as he walked, and thinking of his characters. The way he built his novels was through the voices of his characters."

Dickens liked to walk, as he said, "far and fast," gathering his thoughts and his strength to pour into his novels. The books were published as cliff-hanging serials in magazines or pamphlets before they became bound books — so nothing could be rewritten or reorganized.

"He would write these quite rapidly," Tomalin explains. "And very little was changed when they came out in book form, in volume form, afterwards. ... He was writing books that would become classics, and no other writer has done this."

Tomalin notes that there is bad writing to be found in Dickens' speedily produced novels — but the poor writing is eclipsed by the great writing. One of Tomalin's favorites is David Copperfield — which was also Dickens' favorite.........." (click title to read article with numerous links)


This article is very interesting. It's a link on the NPR article: "Not to Put Too Fine a Point Upon It": How Dickens Helped Shape the Lexicon "With the 200th birthday of Charles Dickens approaching (get your party hats ready for February 7th!), it's a good time to gauge the enormous impact he had on the English language. By many accounts he was the most widely read author of the Victorian era, and no writer since has held a candle to him in terms of popularity, prolificness, and influence in spreading new forms of the language — both highbrow and lowbrow.

Dickens came from a decidedly modest background, working in a boot-blacking factory as a child. He grew up to be a keen observer of the many facets and layers of British society, as well as the language that typified different social classes and walks of life. In his novels, the words from his character's mouths were carefully chosen to reflect their background and personality, often for highly satirical effect. He infused his work with the colloquial speech styles of the day, weaving them into narratives that had a deep effect on his readership.

One way to measure the extent to which Dickens has enriched the lexicon is to see how often he is cited by the Oxford English Dictionary to illustrate the usage of words and phrases. Among writers quoted in the current edition of the OED, Dickens lags behind only Shakespeare, Scott, Chaucer, Milton, and Dryden for total number of citations (9,218). No one in the past two centuries comes close.................."


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Re: "What the Dickens"....NOT HIM too?????
« Reply #33 on: February 11, 2012, 02:53:55 AM »
Thanks CZ  =msn heart= I did enjoy reading that.  =thumbs up=

Whether he was an N all his life...or a born-again moron in later life only...the guy changed the very way words were...and are used. It was like he FELT the words so closely he didn`t feel bound by the rules.

I thoroughly enjoy his quirky style. Whatever his revolting personal behaviour.

So there !!!!
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